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DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT go overboard saying what an evil asshat jerk the guy is and that it's completely his fault and none of hers.
She most likely still has feelings for him and doesn't need to hear that you never liked him - especially if you acted like you did.
And if she accidentally says "boyfriend" instead of "ex-boyfriend" don't jump down her throat and make it a big deal and say she's clinging to the relationship and garbage like that. It's perfectly normal and doesn't have to have "deeper meaning."
Just listen...and make it easy for her to say whatever she wants. Don't make it hard for her to share her feelings because you'll criticize them.
Why yes, I HAVE had someone do this to me recently...how could you tell?
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