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I don't see how such age gaps are really that bearable for people like us. This sounds terrible, but people who don't really do much but go to work, don't go to school, or really even strive continuously to advance their career, they'd have an easier time to adapt, but goal-oriented, bookworms like many of us are (yeah, right?) are in completely different phases of our lives than someone a few years older than us, because we have completely different obligations and I'm not speaking of love, just that I don't see how you can ignore the phases of life, the focusing of concerns and what have you. I dated as a 20 yr-old a 23yr old who'd just graduated, and believe me, that was very difficult because of the phases shifts and what-have-you
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