I understand your dilemma and I agree with every one!!!
The person I wanted as my big was on probation bc of her grades, so I ended up with one of her roomates who I knew just a little bit. At first she was a great big, but then I started hanging out with other sisters who she wasn't crazy about (I found out later she wasn't real liked amongst most of the sisters) and she used to be really obnoxious about it. So after awhile she and I just stopped talking, besides just being cordial with one another. During all this time I had another member of my sorority kind of take me on as her little bc her little had dropped out of school and her grand-lil' was trying to get with her boyfriend...no, i am not kidding! So we became serrogates to each other.
After that, I got my own lil' who is lots of fun and a huge partier and my grand-lil who I love to death and would do anything for.
So, basically after all my rambling, I am just trying to point out, even though you may not know your big, everyone in your sorority has a place in your life if you choose them to be. So go call your big and ask her to go out to dinner or something. She might be shy and not know what to do!!!
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