The gender war: GC women against GC women?

It's obvious this thread defines feminism as choices for women, which is very true. I believe a lot of women who do not choose the traditional choices that there isn't a lot of respect for those women and their choices.

To me, feminism is about choices and respect for women and their decisions. I hate to see a woman marry some schmuck just because she wants a ring on her finger and to follow some traditional way of life. On the other hand, I am happy for those who know who they are and make the right choices for themselves. Those choices can be marrying the right guy and/or having children. Those choices can be staying single and/or not having children. That's good for them.

I believe a lot of the problem that stems from traditional living and feminism is that a lot of women don't know themselves well enough to know what's good for them.