going on dates to just go on a date

[James]

I think AKA_Monet has the right of this one.

A good movie to think about is "50 First Dates" with Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore. The lesson is that on any given day you might succeed or strike out with someone.

You might meet a person on Tuesday and hit it off but if you had met that person on Monday you would have struck out. The timing could be off. One of you could feel bad. Or you just might be out of synch.

Dating someone you don't already have a lot of interest in is a way to see if you hit it off over a few dates. This is assuming you find them basically attractive. Or at least nice to look at.

I also think that AKA_monet is right on with her "Continuable Dateable Education" idea.

Originally posted by AKA_Monet
Are you trying to court for marriage? Or are you just trying to "hang out"?

Dating is really "hanging out" if you do it "serially"... It hardly ever leads more than a few "sporty events" then it's whatever...

If you DO NOT want to get married to that person, and you WANT marriage (eventually), DO NOT go out with that person you have no interest in...

But, I don't see anything wrong with "Continuable Dateable Education" even if you have little interest in that person... You have got to learn how "folks" think, somehow... And practice makes perfect... If you do not "DATE" at all, then how will you have appropriate social interactive behaviors???

DAYUM... Where's James... He's better at this than me...

And don't date Cashmoney unless you want your world rocked...

And you can date Rudey, and he MIGHT show you good time, but he's gonna have EXPECTATIONS in the end...

That's pretty much the broad ranges you get with most guys...