The Ex Effect

[AKA_Monet]

Sweetheart Otter,

Are you serious with this young man? If so, do you want to keep him? If not, please disregard below:

If you have not gotten over your past hurts and pains from old failed relationships, then you will get into a habitual pattern of choosing similar relationships with the "same ole-same ole" men...

So basically if you like the DICK, you keep on coming... Most 'specially if you cain't give up the DICK...

What you need to do is instill your own inner strength and vitality to overcome your past hurts and pains from old failed relationships. You need to complete you somehow, someway...

Now you can go searching forever seeking "enlightenments" allowing "others" to fulfill that need... Or you can find the wherewithall in and of yourself and your soul/spirit or whatever, to give you the power to enrich and be a blessing in your life and others...

I agree with Cashmoney, most men cheat. That percentage is relatively high. But there are a few men that don't. Few and far in between... However, you can push men to cheat also...

I agree with Val on this one, you have a defense mechanism that you've built up to protect yourself. But like James and others have said, it can be used for so long and limit your "expression" of your "light" to other people if you block your own brilliance...

So now what you havta to decide is, what kind of relationship are you prepared to allow into your life?