What's the deal??

[33girl]

Originally posted by blueangel
The purpose of dating is to find a mate to marry. The poster seems distressed because her boyfriend does not seem to be coming forth in that sense.

If your purpose in dating is only to have a sex buddy, then that is your decision. However, I think the poster has more in mind for herself than that. If her boyfriend hasn't made up his mind in three years, that is a major red flag.

Three years is a big chunk out of your life. It is time to move on. It's like trying on shoes-- some shoes may look good, but they hurt. You need to try on a lot of shoes to find the perfect pair that fit, won't give you bunions and that look great! But how can you find that perfect pair of shoes, when you insist on sticking with the same pair of shoes that are ruining your feet? Time to go back to the store and go shopping!

A man who is truly in love with a woman would do anything to keep her. That includes asking her to marry him. A good book to read is "He's Just Not that in to You."

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Yeah, good luck with that.