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Originally posted by 33girl
So many people have kids for the wrong reasons, I think we should have nothing but praise for the people who are NOT having them for the RIGHT reasons.
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COSIGN!!!!!1
Just kidding. But I agree 110 percent. Not having kids because you don't want them is no more selfish than having kids because you want them (in fact, in many cases I think it is less so). And if you know you wouldn't make a good parent, it's certainly a more intelligent choice to not have kids than to have them. I'm not sure why ANYONE would be trying to guilt-trip someone into having kids if they don't want them. That just seems ridiculous, not to mention misguided as hell, to me.
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