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Originally posted by sugar and spice
1) Is "I don't want to ruin the friendship" ever a valid reason for not dating someone, or is it just a line we feed ourselves when we aren't actually THAT attracted to someone?
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cop out
It's most likely already 'ruined' by the time you get to that point - or if not, it's going to be seriously bizarre for the one who's been turned down. If it were there for both sides, it would happen.
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Originally posted by sugar and spice
2) Let's say you have a good, no-commitment-required thing going with someone. Let's say you also get a little jealous even when you know it's not reasonable. Is being able to say "Back off, bitch, he's mine" to other girls ever a valid reason to start an actual relationship with someone, or is that petty?
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It's not like he'd agree to it, anyway. I also took the liberty of deleting your smiley - don't do it again.
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