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			Well, my sister is a lot older than me and my friend is closer to my age but she is still a family friend. My sister is not upset, just bewildered to receive the invitation after the rest of the family. 
 
I understand that most brides and grooms would have a "B list" in case of regrets but I think that if you are going to invite a family, shouldn't you send invitations to them at the same time?
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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