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Originally posted by bekibug
Example:
Susie Q. may have been the biggest hobag in her school. She may very well change over the summer before college, but you don't want people in other chapters that knew her then thinking you have a pledge class full of skanks. Why? Because they will "let it slip" to other PNM's if they know you keep her during the week and definitely the next year.
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So we are all to be held to the mistakes we made in the past? Perhaps that Susie had been abused as a child and these actions were sympotms of a larger issue, if she is a nice girl, shouldn't she be given a chance at friendship.
Sororities were, in my estimation, not created by women who demanded 18 years of previous perfection for entrance. NPC founders were women who were ahead of their time in college. They wanted equal rights to men. They wanted to stand on their own two feet, make a difference, have respect and do some good in the process. If this is where we came from, how have we come to the point where who I lost my viriginity to in HS matters? What some 80 yr old woman who taught me piano thinks? This is a SORORITY, not the CIA. Sororities are supposed to be fun, not the KGB. Reality?
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