Well you're gonna get a response from me. First of all you messed up when you out right stated that your boyfriend was pledging APHIA. What kind of girlfriend are you to post your boyfriend's business on the web? I'm sure your boyfriend has told you how discreet he has to be in his pursuit for membership. Second, this is his process not yours. It's not your business what goes in his process. You should never ask questions, just be there for him. As a fellow greek, there are things that we don't and can't share even with our relatives and significant others. Let me ask you a question. Do you really love and care about him? If the answers is yes, just be there for him. Don't ask questions. This is a journey that he's decided to embark on. One filled with both ups and downs. This was a very important decision that he made. Are you a member of even a non-greek organization on your campus? It might help if you also get involved in something. Pledging isn't forever. Just bear with him, and things will work out. Again I must repeat, NEVER QUESTION JUST BE THERE FOR HIM.
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KAPPA ALPHA PSI FRATERNITY, INC.
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XI LAMBDA
[This message has been edited by NUPE4LIFE (edited February 27, 2001).]
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