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Old 06-21-2005, 12:15 AM
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Need Advice on Another CRAZY

Don't get smart with me here -- I seriously need some ideas.

There's an unfortunate soul living in my dorm. She didn't go home for the summer because she works full-time around here. So, this child has attached herself to me somewhat. She's about 22 and graduated from a Bible college. She plays like she has great self-esteem, but she really doesn't. That's a drain on me.

Here's the real problem. The girl STALKS me. I'm in class just about all day Monday through Thursday. She works until 5 PM and it takes her 10 minutes or so to get home. As soon as she gets home and gets settled, she comes downstairs and the madness ensues.

EVERY SINGLE DAY this summer (including weekends), she has come and knocked on my door or called me. I'm not into that. LEAVE ME ALONE!

Yesterday, between 6 and 9, she knocked on my door four different times. I never answered but I was here. I knew it was her because of the way she knocks and also, she calls out to get my attention. She also called twice because she couldn't find me.

On most days, she'll go outside my window and either try to peek in or scratch at the window to get my attention.

I didn't used to have to lock my door because my dorm is secure, but now I do because if I leave it unlocked SHE WALKS RIGHT IN! I also have taken to hiding out in my room. OHHH - here's the best - I keep my phone on vibrate so she can't hear it ringing since she'll go outside the window and call to see if I'm here and hiding.

Every time she comes by, she wants something from me - let's go to the store; can I borrow some money?; can I use your internet?; can I use your printer? (which, by the way, she never chips in money)...

So, I have to figure out how to deal with her. Right now, I just hide out. The biggest problem is that, whatever I do, I have to live with this girl in my dorm for the next two years.

If I confront her, she'll get defensive and pissed off and won't do anything to change her ways. I already tried to confront her on the printer issue and it was a disaster.

Advice??????
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