Ya'll, I don't know what's happening. Now, after fall orientation, I'm not so sure I wanna join a sorority anymore
I just started having all these doubts and conflicting feelings. After meeting so many awesome people who aren't planning on rushing or anything, I'm not so sure I want to. I'm still going to rush, but I guess I'll just see how it goes. What if someday I just have something I want to do more than go to my chapter meeting, or I don't feel like going to that mixer w/ XYZ b/c my non-greek friends are doing something really fun that night too?????!!!!! Ok, I just don't know what's going on w/ me. What if joining a sorority restricts me from diversifying(sp?) myself and/or my friendships w/ other??? I know all of you sorority gals and fraternity guys have non-greek friends also, but what if I enjoy hanging out w/ my GDI friends more and my sorority feels like I'm dissing them or they wish they had never extended me a bid? Ok, I have a lot more on my mind about this, but it would be a REALLY long post, so can someone offer me any piece of advice or just share a similar experiece or the doubts you had before rushing? Thanks everyone
Liz
[This message has been edited by CRMSNTiDEGRL717 (edited July 20, 2001).]
Change of heart...
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