need advice..
hey all.
so i have been reading this forum for a few days now and decided to join to get some advice from you all.
i am dropping out of my sorority at the end of the semester. last semester, i joined and was really excited about being a member. however, many things happened last semester from a financial standpoint and after this semester, i can no longer afford to stay in this sorority. it is completely draining my bank account and my parents said they won't help me pay for it. i would have to pay for it all. that is a LOT of money and it would be putting every single dime i earn this summer towards the sorority and i just cannot afford to do that. the problem i'm facing is telling my sorority and my big. i absolutely love my big sister and am so scared to tell her i have to drop out when i know she has spent a lot of money on me. i'm thinking of just withdrawing and telling her at the end of the semester. i already have to pay dues for this semester so i figure i might as well enjoy it for one last semester before i drop. i just feel like i am lying to everyone when i know i am going to drop at the end of the semester. do you think i am making the right choice to wait until the end of the semester to tell everyone??
just wanted some input! it has been driving me crazy the last week thinking about it.. thanks
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