nphc and anxiety

[L.O.C.K.]

yay for neos!!!

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Originally Posted by quietriot

i'm at a loss to understand why my ethnicity matters too, or really why anything all that specific matters in reference to my original question but since we're off on a million different tangents anyway, i'm black. and i think you were the same one who was skeptical because i referred to a "bid" and ohmygoodness nphc's don't give bids! ok, my bad. i wouldn't know, being that i'm not at all involved in them. i had no idea lack of knowledge was so offensive, especially during the process of gaining knowledge in the first place.
and i just posted this here because i stumbled across this website when i was researching nphc's on like, google or something. i didn't actually even look through the different forums or whatever, i just picked the one that had the most viewers and posted there in hopes of a helpful response.
and i'm interested because i've talked to a some members of different groups here and they seem awesome. is that a bad reason to initially be interested in an org? isn't that the idea that the people in your org are awesome and you make other people want to find out what else you're about? i can't claim to, nor have i claimed to be all-knowing in the area of nphcs and different organizations, or even freaking web forums.
annnd i don't understand what's so skeptical about someone who asks a question. i mean, did it sound like a fake question? it wasn't even that long. there wasn't even enough material in my original question to constitute any alterior motive at all. it was pretty much "i have anxiety, will people hate me?" and i honestly don't even know what any alterior motive could have been in regards to a question like that.
but sure, be skeptical people. i could be crazy. i asked a question! obviously i'm out to bring all of you down...with a question.

look...I am so not a bleeding heart most of the time, so maybe it's because I work in mental health and know how real these issues can be, but I believe that you really just asked a question that you were concerned about in your first post...unfortunately, alot of a$$wipes come around here just to start trouble so members of orgs are often skeptical of posters....now because your tone in your post has changed to frustation thats going to start a whole nother $hitstorm...thats just the "is what it is" of GC...there are a couple of people in the thread who said to PM them if you wanted to...use those invitations and you can add my name to that list....remember that your community service and academics are more important than anything else...good luck in your endeavors...

oh yeah, and if there is anyone who you can trust and have access to who is in a NPHC org i.e. teachers, ministers, neighbors, start your quest there...

[Reds6]

Originally Posted by quietriot

i'm at a loss to understand why my ethnicity matters too, or really why anything all that specific matters in reference to my original question but since we're off on a million different tangents anyway, i'm black. and i think you were the same one who was skeptical because i referred to a "bid" and ohmygoodness nphc's don't give bids! ok, my bad. i wouldn't know, being that i'm not at all involved in them. i had no idea lack of knowledge was so offensive, especially during the process of gaining knowledge in the first place.
and i just posted this here because i stumbled across this website when i was researching nphc's on like, google or something. i didn't actually even look through the different forums or whatever, i just picked the one that had the most viewers and posted there in hopes of a helpful response.
and i'm interested because i've talked to a some members of different groups here and they seem awesome. is that a bad reason to initially be interested in an org? isn't that the idea that the people in your org are awesome and you make other people want to find out what else you're about? i can't claim to, nor have i claimed to be all-knowing in the area of nphcs and different organizations, or even freaking web forums.
annnd i don't understand what's so skeptical about someone who asks a question. i mean, did it sound like a fake question? it wasn't even that long. there wasn't even enough material in my original question to constitute any alterior motive at all. it was pretty much "i have anxiety, will people hate me?" and i honestly don't even know what any alterior motive could have been in regards to a question like that.
but sure, be skeptical people. i could be crazy. i asked a question! obviously i'm out to bring all of you down...with a question.

I just think it was a dumb question to ask a bunch of strangers that hold no decision making weight on what a sorority on your campus may do. Also we're at the end of a school year so even if you were a freshman, something should have clicked. And if you are really doing research the only question or most important question you came up with was about probates/coming out shows? I'm not unsympathetic to anyone that has any type of illness physical or mental health, but had you been interacting with the chapter of interest and really researching this question most likely would have been answered by someone that can provide you with quality feedback because they know you and have a personal relationship with you.

[ejay286]

Originally Posted by quietriot

i'm at a loss to understand why my ethnicity matters too, or really why anything all that specific matters in reference to my original question but since we're off on a million different tangents anyway, i'm black. and i think you were the same one who was skeptical because i referred to a "bid" and ohmygoodness nphc's don't give bids! ok, my bad. i wouldn't know, being that i'm not at all involved in them. i had no idea lack of knowledge was so offensive, especially during the process of gaining knowledge in the first place.
and i just posted this here because i stumbled across this website when i was researching nphc's on like, google or something. i didn't actually even look through the different forums or whatever, i just picked the one that had the most viewers and posted there in hopes of a helpful response.
and i'm interested because i've talked to a some members of different groups here and they seem awesome. is that a bad reason to initially be interested in an org? isn't that the idea that the people in your org are awesome and you make other people want to find out what else you're about? i can't claim to, nor have i claimed to be all-knowing in the area of nphcs and different organizations, or even freaking web forums.
annnd i don't understand what's so skeptical about someone who asks a question. i mean, did it sound like a fake question? it wasn't even that long. there wasn't even enough material in my original question to constitute any alterior motive at all. it was pretty much "i have anxiety, will people hate me?" and i honestly don't even know what any alterior motive could have been in regards to a question like that.
but sure, be skeptical people. i could be crazy. i asked a question! obviously i'm out to bring all of you down...with a question.

Great post! I wish you luck in all your endeavors.

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by quietriot

i'm at a loss to understand why my ethnicity matters too, or really why anything all that specific matters in reference to my original question but since we're off on a million different tangents anyway, i'm black. and i think you were the same one who was skeptical because i referred to a "bid" and ohmygoodness nphc's don't give bids! ok, my bad. i wouldn't know, being that i'm not at all involved in them. i had no idea lack of knowledge was so offensive, especially during the process of gaining knowledge in the first place.
and i just posted this here because i stumbled across this website when i was researching nphc's on like, google or something. i didn't actually even look through the different forums or whatever, i just picked the one that had the most viewers and posted there in hopes of a helpful response.
and i'm interested because i've talked to a some members of different groups here and they seem awesome. is that a bad reason to initially be interested in an org? isn't that the idea that the people in your org are awesome and you make other people want to find out what else you're about? i can't claim to, nor have i claimed to be all-knowing in the area of nphcs and different organizations, or even freaking web forums.
annnd i don't understand what's so skeptical about someone who asks a question. i mean, did it sound like a fake question? it wasn't even that long. there wasn't even enough material in my original question to constitute any alterior motive at all. it was pretty much "i have anxiety, will people hate me?" and i honestly don't even know what any alterior motive could have been in regards to a question like that.
but sure, be skeptical people. i could be crazy. i asked a question! obviously i'm out to bring all of you down...with a question.

Then the simple answer to your initial question is you being invited to membership and thus having a coming out show will depend on that chapter of your org of interest.

Oh and I did explain why I was skeptical. And I asked your ethnicity to further gauge in my mind your lack of exposure to and rudimentary knowledge of NPHCs.

[Reds6]

Originally Posted by ejay286

Great post! I wish you luck in all your endeavors.

Stop lying Neo!

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

I support this post.

LOL.

Ejay caught the bad rap and I think he's now on that other site.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by ejay286

Great post! I wish you luck in all your endeavors.

Boooo to you all for actually reading it.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by ejay286

Haha trust me if anyone knows how to humble themselves as a neo its me, but pledging does not take away my right to an opinion, sorry if yall think otherwise.

Is that what you gathered from their posts to you?

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

LOL.

Ejay caught the bad rap and I think he's now on that other site.

I just saw that. I came on here to make sure I had the right name. Interesting.

[ejay286]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

I just saw that. I came on here to make sure I had the right name. Interesting.

lol no guys I am still around, actually I am staying at my sisters house (who is a 99 Delta) for the week and I have no connection to the outside world other than this computer. So I have been on the net alot lately and decided to check out pledgepark as well. So you guys havent run me off. I'm a neo remember so I have been talked to alot worse lately so this is nuthin lol.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by ejay286

lol no guys I am still around, actually I am staying at my sisters house (who is a 99 Delta) for the week and I have no connection to the outside world other than this computer. So I have been on the net alot lately and decided to check out pledgepark as well. So you guys havent run me off. I'm a neo remember so I have been talked to alot worse lately so this is nuthin lol.

I guess a cyber cookie is in order here, especially for this.

[ejay286]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

I guess a cyber cookie is in order here, especially for this.

lol well i should get lots of cookies:
Mom: Spring 76 Delta
Dad: Fall 75 Bruh
Sisters: Spring 99 and Spring 03 Deltas

Girlfriend: Fall 06 AKA (don't take all my cookies please)

[L.O.C.K.]

Damn...that's sure livin the Coleman love!

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by L.O.C.K.

Damn...that's sure livin the Coleman love!

If people really loved Gary Coleman, he wouldn't have been a struggling security guard.