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Originally Posted by lilsunshine214
I understand the close relationship. I've seen some girls take it pretty far like saying things like, "Can't wait to meet the new additions to the family!" Once again, I do understand that the particular relationship you have with your Big is special, but you start crossing lines when you say things like that. You confuse people, especially when you're going around telling everyone else, "I quit because all of the girls I liked quit or graduated." If you didn't like the people in the group, why are you still talking to them like you're a member?! Maybe it's just me but if I don't like you, I don't talk to you. It's that simple.
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If someone has to drop because of money or something beyond their control, then I can see why they would want to hold on to the group and keep up the relationships they had in it. I'd have felt bad back in college if one of my sisters had to quit, but I would have felt worse if she acted like we weren't friends anymore because she had to quit.
But if someone quit because she said the group was lame or she wasn't into it, then I agree that she should also recognize that she has to give up the benefits of the group and that she can't try to have it both ways. It's like she's saying "you all aren't fun and important enough to make a priority, but look at me, I'm still one of you." Uh, no. You could have been, but you chose not to be.
It just depends on why they dropped in my opinion.
And if you got kicked out, then in no way should you be pretending to be a member of the group.
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