Question for the Fellas...

[mulattogyrl]

Originally posted by Senusret I
Nothing you have described makes a man pretty. Stylish, suave, sophisticated -- sure.

Ladies -- is Jay Z pretty?

HAYLE NAW

Proceed

[PerfectVerse06]

Originally posted by Senusret I
Ladies -- is Jay Z pretty?

No way!! But his confidence and swagger make him look good in women's eyes.

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally posted by mulattogyrl
HAYLE NAW

Proceed

Ditto!!!!

He dresses nicely, that's about it.

[teena]

Originally posted by marquise1911
Who can judge what's pretty? It's all in what people perceive. Perception is reality! People perceive prettiness in ALMOST every man in KAPsi.

Me

Pretty= You, and the other Kappas on this site

NOT PRETTY= The three hood Kappas that were at my momma's house this weekend that didnt know how to end a party.

I will not comment on the last statement, you pretty rascal

[marquise1911]

Originally posted by teena
Me

Pretty= You, and the other Kappas on this site

I will not comment on the last statement, you pretty rascal

Thanx!

[PerfectVerse06]

Originally posted by teena
NOT PRETTY= The three hood Kappas that were at my momma's house this weekend that didnt know how to end a party.

Shouldn't have offered them sammiches and red kool-aid. You see how they made themselves at home LOL!!

I hope you've learned your lesson. It was a honest mistake. BUT You know how the saying goes...Fool me once, I'll beat yo azz. Fool me twice, I'll beat yo azz again.



Or something like that.

[FeeFee]

Originally posted by PerfectVerse06
Shouldn't have offered them sammiches and red kool-aid. You see how they made themselves at home LOL!!

I hope you've learned your lesson. It was a honest mistake. BUT You know how the saying goes...Fool me once, I'll beat yo azz. Fool me twice, I'll beat yo azz again.



Or something like that.

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA @ the saying.

[marquise1911]

Originally posted by Senusret I
Dude.... "attractive" is not the same as pretty.
Webster defines pretty as: Pleasing or attractive in a graceful or delicate way.

Example A:
Brad Pitt= Pretty Boy
Vin Diesel= Not

Although most women find them BOTH ATTRACTIVE, Vin Diesel is not concidered "pretty".

Brad is "pretty" because he is always well groomed, stylishly dressed, and is....NOT A BRUTE.

But "pretty" in a man is a very specific thing that is not synonymous with any traits that can be learned, such as sophistication or stylishness.

One learns to be graceful and delicate (I hate those words). In the case of men, we learn our grooming habits and sense of style.

ExampleB:
Timberland Boots= A bit thuggish/rugged
Fiagaro wing-tipped lizard skin boots=stylish/pretty

I'm not emotionally invested in this debate -- just REALLY wondering when "pretty" became a state of mind. It really, really is not.

No. it's a way of life that stems from a way of thinking or in other words a state of mind.

[Senusret I]

This definition, on the other hand, is what I think of when I think of an African American pretty boy:


"A male of any sexual orientation possessing fine features, e.g., high, prominent cheek-bones, full lips, long eyelashes, etc., that may be appealing to both sexes."

Add to that "good hair" (sorry) and light skin.

I'm sorry for playing the "Our Kind of People" card, but that's just what a Pretty Boy always was to me.

Everyone who is attractive isn't a pretty boy. Everyone who takes care of themselves (Jay Z) isn't a pretty boy.

But to settle this debate here and now, please post your picture (I'll also post mine for comparison sake) and we can let the general public decide if either one of us is a pretty boy (I really hope that I'm not one, lol).

[FeeFee]

Um, Brad Pitt has had quite a few "not so fresh and so clean" moments. Matter of fact, he has even looked down right mangy in some instances, lol. That's not attractive nor pretty.

When I think of a pretty boy, I think of a guy who possesses feminine facial features.

[teena]

Originally posted by Senusret I

But to settle this debate here and now, please post your picture (I'll also post mine for comparison sake) and we can let the general public decide if either one of us is a pretty boy (I really hope that I'm not one, lol).

Let me take care of this.

I've seen both of your pictures. The answer is (drumroll pls)



You are both the father

Sorry wrong message. You both have the appearance of pretty boys. But I think of pretty boys who are prissy and cute-sy. I dont know if either of you are prissy.

[mulattogyrl]

Originally posted by FeeFee
Um, Brad Pitt has had quite a few "not so fresh and so clean" moments. Matter of fact, he has even looked down right mangy in some instances, lol. That's not attractive nor pretty.

When I think of a pretty boy, I think of a guy who possesses feminine facial features.

Yeah, Brad Pitt can look quite scruffy at times.

I can see both gentleman's points. True, a pretty boy can be someone who takes care of himself looks wise, but sometimes, that still doesn't make you pretty (Jay-Z, for example). Also, a pretty boy can have feminine features. I had an ex that was this type of pretty boy: high cheekbones, flawless skin, long eyelashes, etc. He dressed rugged, but he was 'pretty'. So I think you need a little bit of both to be truly pretty

[teena]

Originally posted by PerfectVerse06
Shouldn't have offered them sammiches and red kool-aid. You see how they made themselves at home LOL!!

I hope you've learned your lesson. It was a honest mistake. BUT You know how the saying goes...Fool me once, I'll beat yo azz. Fool me twice, I'll beat yo azz again.

Or something like that.

LOL.

My momma did worse that give those negroes a sammich and red cool aid. She gave them good food and snow crabs. I told my momma to get their social security numbers so she can claim them on her taxes next year.

[KAPPAtivating]

Originally posted by Senusret I
This definition, on the other hand, is what I think of when I think of an African American pretty boy:


"A male of any sexual orientation possessing fine features, e.g., high, prominent cheek-bones, full lips, long eyelashes, etc., that may be appealing to both sexes."

Add to that "good hair" (sorry) and light skin.

I'm sorry for playing the "Our Kind of People" card, but that's just what a Pretty Boy always was to me.

Everyone who is attractive isn't a pretty boy. Everyone who takes care of themselves (Jay Z) isn't a pretty boy.

But to settle this debate here and now, please post your picture (I'll also post mine for comparison sake) and we can let the general public decide if either one of us is a pretty boy (I really hope that I'm not one, lol).

I completly disagree. "Pretty", in reference to my organization, is not about cheek bones or any of that other mess. Who cares how long a person's eye lashes are? I don't get in to that. As I stated before, "pretty" is a mind set. Like Marquise stated, it can not be stolen. I have always felt that way about myself and everyone who has ever known me says the same thing. You can take an XYZ organization and put him in a suit and he will be just that. Or you can take a Kappa man, give him the same suit and he will transform that suit into something that will make anyone look twice. Much like the ladies said earlier, it's the swagger, the look, the personality that makes you "pretty"...if you don't have it you wouldn't know.

[Senusret I]

This is insanity.

I have a strong suspicion that no Kappa who has replied to this thread is a classic pretty boy and I'm touching a nerve.

I will leave it at this, because I feel like I'm in an insane asylum now.