When you aren't "the best girl"

[MTSUHopeful]

Okay, so I don't remember the exact thread I read this on (and it could be a few years old, even) but someone mentioned that MTSU sororities are quite competitive in wanting the "Best Girls".

The comment-er went on to explain that the "Best" were those who were Pageant winners, very athletic, dance oriented, and those with super high GPAs.

Now, I am none of these things, unless you count my 3.5ish GPA (I say ish because it is around there, but I do not wish to specify) which doesn't seem super high to me. I've never been keen on athletics. I only dance for fun and like a dork might I add. And the only pageant I've ever been in was when I was a child for the small town I grew up in (it was for some holiday for a parade or something. As you can see, I remember it so well).

This is both a question and a comment.

Comment first.

I assume I will have to work very hard to stand out and make myself look like a good asset to the sorority. Be chatty (which thankfully, is one of my strong suits) and friendly. Avoid the no-no topics and make myself memorable.

But how? How does one who is just your "average" sweet girl make herself stand out in a crowd full of over achieving, dancing or athletic pageant winners? I know there is no "right" answer, and most will say, "Just be yourself!" but.. I'm sure there are others out there who are like me, "average", who are just as scared that we will be passed over for those who are "better".

I'm not looking for a definitive answer, but more along the lines of tips and tricks to get yourself noticed.

And obviously these tips don't have to be just for MTSU, but for any recruitment (though tips for slightly to very competitive recruitment might be best).

Thanks ladies. :]