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			Here I some of my broken heart band-aids......... 
1.  No Happy Holidays - Mary J. Blige      my  favorite     
2.  Let It Flow - Toni Braxton 
3.  Don't Waste My Time - Mary J. Blige 
4.  Love - Misque 
5.  The Love I Never Had - Mary J. Blige 
6.  Not Lookin' - Mary J. Blige & K-Ci Haley 
7.  Put That on Everything - Brandy 
8.  Never Say Never - Brandy 
9.  Musiq-love, 143  
10. When It Hurts So Bad - Lauryn Hill
 
I just wanted to share the lyrics from my favorite song with you all......
 No Happy Holidays 
 
I can't believe 
After all this time 
I'm in love with a man 
Who can never be mine 
And just to think 
I believed one day you'd really leave 
Like you said you would 
Cause you don't love her 
But your little girl really needs you, oh 
 
Chorus: 
Christmas you weren't with me 
On New Year's Eve you were not around 
Valentine came and went 
Makes me wonder where your time was spent 
No fireworks on the Fourth of July 
Thanksgiving was another lie 
Your family has never met me 
And you've never met mine 
No happy holiday 
 
I got to let go of this feeling 
Being with you deprives me of true love 
I can't fathom living this life 
Without being number one 
This is finally goodbye 
I pray to God you live a happy life 
Cause loving you just ain't right 
 
Chorus 
 
I wish I had known 
The situation from the start 
Now it's complicated because 
I gave you my heart 
Honestly I held on 
For my ego, my pride 
But what goes around comes around 
But maybe next time I'll be on the other side
As you can tell Mary J. Blige is my favorite artist because I feel exactly what she's singing about....These are only a few of my favorites.......
 
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			Watch out, Professor-- I'm DoggyStyle's bodyguard now! 
 
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I'll give it to a Brother - Those are some strong words. But, but, but - well, dee_style1 you said you were joking. 
 
 
			
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 Yessss Professor, I was just joking.    if my boyfriend (an Alpha) saw the comment I made and I didn't say that I was just joking, he would have some words for me!
		  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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			I don't know how familiar you may be with Alanis Morrisette, but "You Oughtta Know" off of her first album is a really good "I'm angry, and I should break all of your stuff, you rotten troll" type song. 
 
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			I don't care what path you take in life.....we all share one thing in life...we are all WOMAN first!!!! And we all have one thing in common...Some form of HEART ACHE at one point in our lives. Strip away all of the colors, greek letters, calls, etc....and you have a HEART!!! AND DOGGYSTYLE....YOU JUST STOLE MINES....... 
 
 
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"The cure for your broken heart doesn't lie in song or music. Place your heart in my large hands and I'll mend it. Let your lips taste the fullness of mine and they will stop trembling, let your eyes gaze upon the wonder that is a true Omega man and they will stop crying, place your body within the strong embrace that is the embodiment of Manhood and you will never feel abandoned. Satisfy your hunger for love with a meal of dark chocolate Man who understands the yearning, passions, needs, wants, and desires of his Black Queen and you will sing a new song. Feel betta shuga?"
			
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			Why is "bitter" my CUT? Even one of my profs said to me," Why is that when I see you, that Chante Moore song comes to my head?"     We're cool, so I just LOL.
 
Anywho, I just called it quits with the dating scene here, so there'll be no getting back into it. People scoff, but I really don't think my soul mate is here. Even the guys I think are nice have something serious wrong with them. I digress.
 
But two more songs I like are "Cool As I Am" by Dar Williams, and that song by Monifah (I think it's her) called "I Can Tell."
 
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			the411 - I was where you are this past Fall so I feel you ... 
 
You will want to try: 
 
New Edition - Home Again - Track #7 - Something About You 
 
Etta James - At Last (the WHOLE thing, chile) ... 
 
and I agree with you WHOLEHEARTEDLY on Miss Scott's "Slo'ly Surely" ...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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			i'm going thru the same thing.. here's what's on my napster "break up" list  
 fool of me - mishelle ndegeocello 
 breaking up - donny hathaway  
 love - musiq soulchild 
 if i was the one - ruff endz 
 olivia - bizounce  
 roll with me - coed  
 how can u mend a broken heart- al green 
 he loves me - jill scott 
 can u hold me now- kirk franklin  
 open my heart, jesus kept me or anything by yoland adams  
 when sunny gets blue - sarah vaughn  
 good mornin heartache - billy holiday  
 after all is said and done - beyonce knowles and marc dorsey  
 many more ... the whole list is available on napster whenever I am.. screen name is frashad  
 
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"Bitter" (the *igga version    ) Chante Moore 
Sista, keep your head up! Everything will be fine! Your sunshine is coming, and you'll be all cried out!     
 
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 You know what...I looked for this post and I went and listened to this song.  I was all crying and stuff...and I just burst out laughing when she said "I hate your dog!"  I really feel like that!!!!
 
**edit to add** 
Cry me a River....Justin Timberlake
		  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
		
			
				  
				
					
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			I am suprise that nobody said Gloria Gaynor's all time classic "I will survive", dang that song was written just for me   !
 
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"...black is a color of beauty and mystery...one in the same..." 
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			" I Will Survive" the Shantay Savage version........ 
 
"Let's just kiss and say good-bye" the Manhattens" (I may have spelled that wrong but ya'll know the song) 
 
 
One of my favorites is I'll do Anything for you" by Gloria Estefan 
 
here's a quote from the song  
 
" I'll do anything for you....but give you up...thats what I should do....to make you happy.....I can pretend each time I see you, that I don't care and I don't need you...... and though you'll never let  see me crying...I know inside I feel like dying....I hope you find someone to please you..someone who cares and really needs you...but if that someone ever hurts you...and you need a friend to turn to.....I'd still do anything for you...."    
 
(this is deep sistasfriends...I've been there!!!)  
 
 
"Ex-Factor" by Lauren Hill 
 
"You oughta to know" by Alantis Morrisette 
 
I probably could name a hundred more because I love music so much but last I'll put a new joint.....it's #4 on Heather Headley's CD and I believe its called "I Wish" 
 
I hope none of my Sorors or Sistafriends needs this list right now but if so I say  "*@#! em girl, he didn't deserve you anyway!"
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I like Shantay's version as well. 
 
Also, I liked "Anything for you." I loved the end where those "horns" were playing... 
 
A few songs on Blu Cantrell's CD. I'm sorry, I don't know the titles, but If you have the CD, you know what I'm talking about...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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