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Antibiotics for a Broken Heart
This weekend, I was doing some extra spring cleaning in an effort to take my mind off a very recent break-up. I won't go into details about what happened 'cause I'm trying to move on. Let's just say, I got dumped for NO warranted reason at all (unless being giving and loving, and treating the black man like a King are grounds for being dumped). To get myself in the cleaning mood, I pumped up the volume on my stereo while jamming to some of my favorite CDs.
What I've discovered is that if you're trying to get over a break-up, ANGIE STONE'S CD IS JUST WHAT YOU NEED!!! It's the for real GIRLPOWER CD! Here are other songs that work, too-- 1. Survivor (Destiny's Child) 2. After the Love (Brian McKnight) 3. Kiss Your Love Goodbye (Brian McKnight) 4. Someday (Mariah Carey) 5. Tears Ago (Rahsaan Paterson) 6. Runnin' Outta Time (Da Brat) 7. All in My Mind (Full Force) 8. All Cried Out (Allure & 112) 9. Slo'ly Surely (Jill Scott) 10. LOVE (Musiq Soulchild) My Personal Favorite What other tunes do YOU recommend?!?!?! ------------------ Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Pi Kappa, SP97 #3 of QUINTESSENCE [This message has been edited by the411 (edited April 03, 2001).] |
Hello everyone!
It's been a good while since I have been in your shoes... But, one's I remember listening to and recently have heard, if I were in this situation would be: "Bitter" (the *igga version http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif) Chante Moore "Breakdown" Mariah Carey Any song by Sade Share My World CD Mary J My Life CD Mary J Angie Stone is da bomb! "Love Under New Management" Mikki Howard ('member her?) http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif Dang, I can't remember them all (I guess that's a good thing). My music is in boxes (I'm getting ready to move). If I think of others, I will come back! Sista, keep your head up! Everything will be fine! Your sunshine is coming, and you'll be all cried out! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif [This message has been edited by AKA2D '91 (edited April 02, 2001).] |
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO man I have been on Brokenhearted Blvd. toooooo many times.
I love music and there have been some songs that ARE WONDERFUL for FIGHTING THE POWER http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif A. DOING JUST FINE by BOYZ II MEN B. ONE DAY YOU WILL by DEBORAH COX C. KELLY PRICE --all that needs to be said D. TO HELL WIT YA by PINK E. WHERE DID WE GO WRONG by BLACKGIRL F. IT'S OVER by THE GYRLZ ***** There are more but since my CD collection was stolen, I am typing off of the top of my head http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif **** Want to access these songs, go to NAPSTER http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif |
Just a few songs that I've listened to in the past after being dumped by a few SOME ONES that I thought was "Mr. Right". It took a few tries, but THANK GOD, I got over that creep and married a REAL MAN.
1. Last Cry by Brian McNight 2. Love Rain Down on Me by Jill Scott (but all songs on the Jill Scott CD will work). 3. Deep in My Heart by Lauren Hill 4. After the Love is Gone by Earth, Wind, and Fire 5. Change Coming/It Will Come To Pass by Hezekiah Walker and the Love Fellowship Crusade Choir 6. So I Creep by TLC http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif (this was my anthem when my past boyfriend cheated on me and I found out). There are sooo many inspirational songs out there (old and new). If I think of any more, I'll hit you up. But until then, remember that you are special and that chump is really the one who's missing out!!! Stay strong Sisterfriend. |
can we say for a good cry:
stevie wonder-never dreamed you'd leave in summer joe-all that i am jill scott-i ain't gotta say no mo anita baker-can we say DIVA!!! where is she? sade-that's my girl al green-let stay together, love and happiness, how can you mend a broken heart Musiq-love, 143 eric benet-love don't love me carl thomas-emotional and my favorite i wish jagged edge-promise billie holiday- my man and the last one that makes me brawl like a baby is kelis- get along with you. an excerpt... "Dear Diary I remember like it was yesterday It was October 30th I no longer have any need for these worldly things I wanna go where he is I’ll follow the fire in the sky And just like that I’ll be gone You took my heartbeat from me This is the saddest story What was wrong with my love Your took my heartbeat from me Should have just stabbed it for me From ashes to dust I just wanna get along with you" then i got my music that will get over it and move along....F*$* you!! kelis- caught out there (i might have inspired her for that one) lil kim- perferably # 4 on her new album and any other songs that has a dissing edge yvette michele- i'm not feeling you (remember that one?) robin-show me love sunshine- heard it all before Olivia-bizounce (the girl gotta it going on) i've got quite few F*%& 'em songs..... ------------------ MaMaBuddha Devastating Stimulating Tantalizing _________________________ Imaginer un métro rempli avec les anges tombés... [This message has been edited by MaMaBuddha (edited April 02, 2001).] |
I would have to go with the whole damn Toni-Braxton cd...the second one, I can't remember the name. Songs like:
Don't break my heart Find me a man I'll be right back...I gotta do some research! Okay, I got it now.... The name of the cd is "Secrets" And listen in this order, it kinda takes me through the "stages" really quick. There's No Me Without You I Love Me Some Him In The Late Of Night How Could An Angel Break My Heart Un-Break My Heart Why Should I Care Let It Flow - (from "Waiting To Exhale") I Don't Want To Find Me A Man These are the "stages" I go through: I feel pitiful. Then I think about how much I love him, I cry and I ask why me...again. Then I want it all undone and I feel pitiful some more. Then I say F***k em'; I put on my dress and say F***k em'!!! Then I eventually gets back in the game. BE STRONG!!! DEE [This message has been edited by dee_style1 (edited April 02, 2001).] |
Don't forget the blues, I always gotta play Bobby Blue Bland and Etta James after a break up.
And "Vanishing" by Mariah Carey. When I'm in vengeance mode, I play Kelis "Caught Out There" and Brownstone "Grapevyne." THAT one got me through Junior year of college. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif |
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The other CDs/Songs was SWV's 2nd CD, primarily the songs FINE TIME (that was my anthem for 2 years), What's It Gonna Be?, Love is So Amazing, Use Your Heart. The 2nd CD was Monifah's first CD: #3 It's ALRIGHT and #11 YOU SHOULDA TOLD ME. Mary J. Blige: My Life Finally, FAITH EVANS: Songs #13-15, that's it and that's all. SALIENCE, YOU TOO?? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif on the GRAPEVINE, that was my song. It was my junior year and senior year #1 as well. [This message has been edited by CrimsonTide4 (edited April 02, 2001).] |
"It Wasn't Me" by Shaggy
No, really, "I Can't Make You Love Me" by Bonnie Raitt is a great broken heart song The cure for your broken heart doesn't lie in song or music. Place your heart in my large hands and I'll mend it. Let your lips taste the fullness of mine and they will stop trembling, let your eyes gaze upon the wonder that is a true Omega man and they will stop crying, place your body within the strong embrace that is the embodiment of Manhood and you will never feel abandoned. Satisfy your hunger for love with a meal of dark chocolate Man who understands the yearning, passions, needs, wants, and desires of his Black Queen and you will sing a new song. Feel betta shuga? This public service announcement was brought to you by the letter Que |
ROTFLMAO!
THAT WAS A GOOD ONE! the 411, you should feel much better after all of dat! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif |
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OOOOooooh I got a nice long laugh from that one! So close to home! I'll just say Amen and amen and amen! ------------------ "Unless you know the road you've come down, you cannot know where you are going" ~Temme proverb, Sierre Leone~ |
my suggestions:
not gon cry don't waste your time not looking (all by mary j. blige) love don't live here anymore tyrone who can i run to when a woman's fed up-r.kelly this woman's work-maxwell silly love song - nicole it's gonna rain - kelly price ex-factor - l. boogie faded pictures - case and joe sh*t, d*mn, m*therf*cker - d'angelo (on that vengeance tip http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif ) ------------------ I hope life isn't a big joke, because I don't get it. Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes. Maybe in order to understand mankind, we have to look at the word itself: "Mankind". Basically, it's made up of two separate words - "mank" and "ind". What do these words mean ? It's a mystery, and that's why so is mankind |
Have you heard Prince's version of "I Can't Make You Love Me"?
In my case, I'm just "Bitter" about the way the brotha handled things. If a man doesn't want to be with me, I'd hope he'd be honest, considerate, respectful and "Just Be a Man About It". There's no easy way to end a relationship with someone who loves you (Do What I Gotta Do), but there is definitely a WRONG way--he chose the latter. I am just disappointed that "We Can't Be Friends". I always prefer that my relationships end on a good note where, in time, we can put the past behind us an be platonic friends. Such is the case for three of my best male friends to date--we are like siblings now. Luckily, there are Omegas like DoggyStyle82,whose friendships are everlasting and forever essential. Doggy, I'll be on the next flight out... ------------------ Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Pi Kappa, SP97 #3 of QUINTESSENCE |
I'll give it to a Brother - Those are some strong words. But, but, but - well, dee_style1 you said you were joking.
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Hi All,
Reading your posts reminded me of some old relationships. But even more so, it makes me ever so thankful for the wonderful lady that is now in my life. Sisters and Brothers that are currently wondering when and if you will meet the right person know that it can happen. Just keep the faith. ------------------ "The World Belongs to Those Who Care Deeply, Who Dream Broadly, and Who Work Steadfastly." |
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