When is it TOO soon/late...

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by smiley21
not everyone in church is pure. everyone knows that. don't let the cover fool you. but also, do not let it make you think that all church girls are undercover loose women.

Don't they have some hotties at New Life?

[smiley21]

Originally posted by cashmoney
Don't they have some hotties at New Life?

hello? i go to that church, so what do you think? haha just kidding. there are some very pretty girls there. some are engaged though.

[BabyP]

have sex with someone your casually dating? before you officially go out.

-consider someone your dating as your boyfriend/girlfriend?

the next day

-start sleeping over at each others places?

the same day

-meet their parents?

Before you go out with them.


I somehow to meet the parents on third date I dont know why BUT when its time for HIM to meet MY parents - at least four months!!! Most of them dont make that long - I dump them.

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by smiley21
hello? i go to that church, so what do you think? haha just kidding. there are some very pretty girls there. some are engaged though.

Hey, being engaged doesnt mean jack...ok? I just got out of one. Hey let me ask you a question....do you know Heather Malevan? or Malvan? or maybe it's Mailvan? I forgot how to spell it. Anyhow, she's tall. I think she goes to school down at Warner Southern or one of those type of schools down south. She may have even graduated this past spring or summer.

[KSigkid]

The answer - anytime you're ready.

Seriously, there's no timetable on relationships and when to do certain things. There are exceptions to every rule, and a relationship isn't something you can hold to certain guidelines.

[smiley21]

Originally posted by cashmoney
Hey, being engaged doesnt mean jack...ok? I just got out of one. Hey let me ask you a question....do you know Heather Malevan? or Malvan? or maybe it's Mailvan? I forgot how to spell it. Anyhow, she's tall. I think she goes to school down at Warner Southern or one of those type of schools down south. She may have even graduated this past spring or summer.

you are asking the wrong person. i never know anyone. i need to get out more.

anywho, the percentage of people engaged getting married is pretty high here. remember when we talked about the pastor's son? well his third son just got engaged

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by smiley21
you are asking the wrong person. i never know anyone. i need to get out more.

anywho, the percentage of people engaged getting married is pretty high here. remember when we talked about the pastor's son? well his third son just got engaged

Brandon? And I'm sure you know who Heather is, just ask Paul Jr....he should refresh your mem.

[smiley21]

Originally posted by cashmoney
Brandon? And I'm sure you know who Heather is, just ask Paul Jr....he should refresh your mem.

no brandon is already married. i am talking about nathan

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by smiley21
no brandon is already married. i am talking about nathan

I'm going to come to your church one day. Pray that the walls don't come tumbling down from the sin that walks in.

[smiley21]

i want to know when you do. i am not missing such a history making moment

[arrowgirl]

-have sex with someone your casually dating?

It depends on when you and the other person feel it is right.

-consider someone your dating as your boyfriend/girlfriend?

When you have talked to them and you have decided together to be officially dating.

-start sleeping over at each others places?

When you're comfortable doing it. My boyfriend slept over before we started dating - - - because we were friends before that.

-meet their parents?

I think maybe once you are official, or maybe it depends on if they LIVE with their parents. My boyfriend (of a year and 4 months) lives in Illinois, and I live in Michigan, and we met at school in Illinois (although not where he is from). Due to that fact, I didn't meet his parents until our 1 year anniversary. It may be weird to some people, but not for us.

[adpiucf]

What if you've conceeded that you're only seeing each other, but no titles have been addressed? Is it safe to call someone your BF/GF then?