I'm sorry.
If I was there we'd get dressed up real nice and I'd take you out to a really great dinner at a classy restaurant and then go for drinks.
Happy birthday.
If its any consolation, my 19th sucked. It was a letdown after the 18th and no one seemed to care. The only gift I got was from my sister who didnt wrap it and just told me to go get it out from underneath her bed. My mom didnt even call me.
I've since made them all pay. Dearly.