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Originally posted by ninjabunny:
Anyways, can you tell me what's the best way to talk to the girls in the sorority? I would like to get to know them better, but I think they are busy initiating and it would be awkward to just show up out of nowhere. Can I just knock on their door and start talking? Anyways, thanks for asking!
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How would you react if someone you never met in your life just showed up at your door and said "hello, I want to be your friend!"
That's what I thought.
Scope out your classes in the coming weeks for people wearing letters, etc. Just strike up a conversation with them like you would anyone else in your class. Don't have the first thing that comes out of your mouth be questions about the sorority or they are going to feel like you are just using them to get in.
Also, support Greek events (if someone has a teeter-totter-thon, for example) and keep your eyes peeled for notice of open bid parties. You can go to these and you are not obligated to anything, but you get a chance to check the sorority out.