Would you tell

[The Original Ape]

Originally posted by MissDiamond:
Hmmmm! If this forum wasn't for all eyes...I would REALLY respond to that one!

AH, AINT THAT SWEET! I HAVE A PROFILE...

[MissDiamond]

Originally posted by The Original Ape:
AH, AINT THAT SWEET! I HAVE A PROFILE...

What a coincidence! So do I!! *wink, wink*

[Cream Puff]

Maybe it's just me, but this sounds like a possible luv connection!!

[Sexy Mocha]

Originally posted by Cream Puff:
Maybe it's just me, but this sounds like a possible luv connection!!

No Cream Puff, it's not just you.

[Ice Cold Kreator]

Sexy Mocha,

I think that women should expect the best...and Demand it!!!!

If a man cheats on you now, what makes you think he's gonna be faithful later?

Plus, I know some brothers who don't engage in sex b/c of religious or personal reasons...these brothers do exist! You just got to find someone compatible!

I think that women should put religious orientation a little higher on their lists then they do? Would you rather have a Religious faithful man who works hard everyday and brings his paycheck home who doesn't have a degree....or a man who has no moral girth with a degree who can't be loyal?

My thing is STOP being fooled by the SEX!!!
Start looking at the other things!

Holla At Me!!

[The Original Ape]

[quote]Originally posted by Sexy Mocha:

Originally posted by Ice Cold Kreator:

However, they don't think men can keep themselves...so all they care is that they better not find out!!! And that you better treat them like the QUEEN they are, when you are in their presence!!! (they are not endorsing outside stuff, but they feel like its not a choice)...

Can you suggest a better choice?

I have a suggestion; but it's for your eyes only!

[Sexy Mocha]

Originally posted by Ice Cold Kreator:
Sexy Mocha,

I think that women should expect the best...and Demand it!!!!


you know what they say, hope for the best, but expect the worse. Not that I, personally, expect all men to cheat...but let's be realistic here...most men, with the exception of those that faithfully practice religion/spirituality, will go elsewhere if they're woman isn't satisfying them at all.

If a man cheats on you now, what makes you think he's gonna be faithful later?

Oh, I agree with you on this one, but likewise, if he starts out being faithful...what's to say, down the line, he won't start cheating because of one reason or another? (and we all know, men will dam sure come up with reasons/excuses for their indiscretions!)


Plus, I know some brothers who don't engage in sex b/c of religious or personal reasons...these brothers do exist! You just got to find someone compatible!

I'm sure these brothers do exist, but chances are those are the ones already taken!

I think that women should put religious orientation a little higher on their lists then they do? Would you rather have a Religious faithful man who works hard everyday and brings his paycheck home who doesn't have a degree....or a man who has no moral girth with a degree who can't be loyal?

Religious orientation should definitely be #1 on the list...and as for the man I would rather have...it would definitely be the first choice. No woman wants a man who's going to cheat on her...but, just to reinerate...LET'S BE REALISTIC HERE...men will be men!

My thing is STOP being fooled by the SEX!!!
Start looking at the other things!

Sex is such a wonderfully tricky thing ...sometimes it's hard not to be fooled

Holla At Me!![/B]

[This message has been edited by Sexy Mocha (edited August 24, 2000).]

[Sexy Mocha]

Originally posted by The Original Ape:
I have a suggestion; but it's for your eyes only!

Original, you always seem to have all the right suggestions/words to say to us women in here...what would we do without you?

[MissDiamond]

Sexy Mocha, I agree with you! We all would like to think our man is that rare one that doesn't cheat but we DO have to be realistic sista! We can not just put our full trust in a man, no matter how much we are in love with this man or care about him. Expecting the worse can lessen the blow if I do find out he's cheating.

[The Original Ape]

Originally posted by Sexy Mocha:
Original, you always seem to have all the right suggestions/words to say to us women in here...what would we do without you?

Stop it Sexy! You're makin' me blush! Naw, thanks for the complement sweettart!

HOLLA AT ME TOO!

[Sexy Mocha]

Originally posted by The Original Ape:
Stop it Sexy! You're makin' me blush! Naw, thanks for the complement sweettart!

HOLLA AT ME TOO!

Original, making you blush was not my intention.

HOWEVER...I'm glad you have such a keen sense of humor .

[Sexy Mocha]

Originally posted by MissDiamond:
Sexy Mocha, I agree with you! We all would like to think our man is that rare one that doesn't cheat but we DO have to be realistic sista! We can not just put our full trust in a man, no matter how much we are in love with this man or care about him. Expecting the worse can lessen the blow if I do find out he's cheating.

I see you're feeling me on certain things I have said, but actually...I do not agree with you on the issue of trust. If I'm in love with a man, I'm going to trust him 100%, UNTIL he gives me a reason not to.

However, Miss Diamond , we, as women, do have to stay alert and on point.

i agree with you.i am the same with you.if i love one girl i trust her 100% until she gives me the reason not too......

[Intensify]

Ice Cold Kreator~ Boo, I disagree with the comment about us ladies being attracted to the men with all the flashy material things. I, personally, along with a host of other women, the REAL women--that is, out there don't care too much for the flash. Nine times out of ten, men who have to flash what they have are insecure about something. Now, I don't know about ya'll, but, I can't stand an insecure man. I would much rather have a man with little and a whole lot of sense than a rich fool--Ya Dig?

[Cream Puff]

Originally posted by Intensify:
Ice Cold Kreator~ Boo, I disagree with the comment about us ladies being attracted to the men with all the flashy material things. I, personally, along with a host of other women, the REAL women--that is, out there don't care too much for the flash. Nine times out of ten, men who have to flash what they have are insecure about something. I can't stand an insecure man. I would much rather have a man with little and a whole lot of sense than a rich fool--Ya Dig?

Intensify, You took the words right out of my mouth! I couldn't have said it better myself!