Would you tell
 

Have any of you bruhs been in love, messed around on yo girl, AND TOLD HER? What happened? Did you lose her? Was it worth it to tell?

When I was much younger, my girlfriend and I "shacked" while in college. After returning from a trip to SC I ran into the love of life. A young lady I dated from 6th grade 'til my junior year in college. She was oh so good and I could feel my heart and of course the rest of body saying I've got to have that. The current girlfriend and I had been a couple for about 1 1/2. I went home, told her I was still in love with my ex. and was going out with her that night. She was pissed but I went out anyway with my ex. After spending a hour with my ex. I realized why we did not make it as a couple and more importantly what I relationship lacked. After taking my ex home I went back the apartment and told my girlfried what a poor decision I made. She forgave me and that was that.

Post Scrip: I think that if you really love someone and want be with a person you will learn to forgive your mate for making SOME bad decisions (I was just lucky).

HELL YEAH; you WERE LUCKY bruh! Women don't come built like that anymore. If so, they're few and FAR BETWEEN.

*Whew*, Professor, you were lucky.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Professor:


Post Scrip: I think that if you really love someone and want be with a person you will learn to forgive your mate for making SOME bad decisions

Professor, I agree whole-heartedly! I believe in the "three strikes and you're out" method myself.



[This message has been edited by Sexy Mocha (edited August 21, 2000).]

Original Ape, I don't know about other women, but I am truly offended by your comment http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif. There are a lot of us good women out here who come "built like that". Maybe
you just haven't been looking in the right places sweetie http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif!

[This message has been edited by MissDiamond (edited August 22, 2000).]

Sista! My intent was not to insult you; but to draw out all of you rare flowers with spunk! and it worked

Well, you have succeeded in drawing out one. Now, the question is, what do you do with a rare flower once you've found one http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif?

I'm with Miss Diamond!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif Although we rare flowers are often overlooked, we are certainly not a dying breed!!!! Back me up, Sistas!!!

Well then, where yall at?

We're right here sweetheart...now if only we can find that rare brother with all the RIGHT qualities!! Any of you out there? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

We're out there!

But just like how we do women, ya'll be overlooking the good stuff...for the flashy packages!!!!

I tell you...everything that looks like OLD GOLD...isn't!!!!

And Professor...you WERE VERY VERY LUCKY!!!!

But I'm finding out...that women have a very complex ideology!!!

I have had some Sorors and Deltas tell me that they don't engage in sex (while dating)!
However, they don't think men can keep themselves...so all they care is that they better not find out!!! And that you better treat them like the QUEEN they are, when you are in their presence!!! (they are not endorsing outside stuff, but they feel like its not a choice)...

Ain't that nothin!

While thats more than I can handle...I think it underestimates Brothers...and continues to oversexualize Black men who are often not held accountable!

What'cha ya'll think!

A PHI,

PHI-SKEE,

I am,

The Ice Cold Kreator

Looka here, florita:

Don't start no fiyas you can't put out!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ice Cold Kreator:

However, they don't think men can keep themselves...so all they care is that they better not find out!!! And that you better treat them like the QUEEN they are, when you are in their presence!!! (they are not endorsing outside stuff, but they feel like its not a choice)...

Can you suggest a better choice?

Hmmmm! If this forum wasn't for all eyes...I would REALLY respond to that one! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif