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[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by freedomfly

see this is exactly what I am talking about. AlphaFrog, do you know me? NO Do you know my purpose for asking my question in the way I did? NO so why the rude response???

I will have you know that no matter what kind of question is posted anywhere on this site, you will NEVER truly know who is behind it and why. I for one, have not been in college since 2003, during my collegiate years, I became a member of Kappa Phi Delta which has helped me develop my womanly and straightforward character, as an alumni, I try to help the many girls I know who look up to collegiate members of greek orgs and the reason I asked a question about OSU is because a friend (mentee) of mine who attends the school was too afraid to post just in case she became a PNM. I think that it is your kind of almost belittling rudeness that perpetuates common sterotypes about greek women and men, we are always seens as snobby better than the rest types and a response like yours only makes those kind of stigmas more prevalant to the outside community. In regards to what you said about getting what I put in FIRST OF ALL I am not trying to put anything into a website Im really too old to be playing around on, I was just trying to be a good person something that my sisters have taught me to be and if I thought there was going to be harm in me asking the question then I would not have posted it. And it was not a fragment of a question, if you know then there is a yes or no answer to the question there is no need to be pretentious about it. That is all I have to say, I don't even want to know your answer because I am going to choose not to tell my friend about my post I don't want her to have the same negative image of GLOs that you have represented in your post. Please represent your organization wisely. Thank You

Originally Posted by freedomfly

see this is exactly what I am talking about. AlphaFrog, do you know me? NO Do you know my purpose for asking my question in the way I did? NO so why the rude response???

I will have you know that no matter what kind of question is posted anywhere on this site, you will NEVER truly know who is behind it and why. I for one, have not been in college since 2003, during my collegiate years, I became a member of Kappa Phi Delta which has helped me develop my womanly and straightforward character, as an alumni, I try to help the many girls I know who look up to collegiate members of greek orgs and the reason I asked a question about OSU is because a friend (mentee) of mine who attends the school was too afraid to post just in case she became a PNM. I think that it is your kind of almost belittling rudeness that perpetuates common sterotypes about greek women and men, we are always seens as snobby better than the rest types and a response like yours only makes those kind of stigmas more prevalant to the outside community. In regards to what you said about getting what I put in FIRST OF ALL I am not trying to put anything into a website Im really too old to be playing around on, I was just trying to be a good person something that my sisters have taught me to be and if I thought there was going to be harm in me asking the question then I would not have posted it. And it was not a fragment of a question, if you know then there is a yes or no answer to the question there is no need to be pretentious about it. That is all I have to say, I don't even want to know your answer because I am going to choose not to tell my friend about my post I don't want her to have the same negative image of GLOs that you have represented in your post. Please represent your organization wisely. Thank You

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[AlphaFrog]

For the record, it really wasn't THAT rude of a reply.

Especially in comparison with what I would have said if I was really TRYING to be rude.

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

For the record, it really wasn't THAT rude of a reply.

Especially in comparison with what I would have said if I was really TRYING to be rude.

Of course *WE* know that!

Where's that "New to GC?" thread when you need it?

Originally Posted by freedomfly

mabye you should start it cause the way ppl act on here there needs to be a debriefing session B4 and after

The search function is your friend:

Top Newbie Questions
GC Newbies should LOOK and NOT POST here

I usually like suggesting to new posters to lurk and get a feel of the place first before posting. It'll save you from wasting your time spouting off to longtime posters who really don't care what you have to say.

[AOII Angel]

Quote:
Originally Posted by AOII Angel
The OP asked this question in Jul 2000...I doubt she needs anymore recs!

Yes, but this person posted today:


Quote:
Originally Posted by freedomfly
need recs for osu (The Ohio State University)?

Ahhhh....That post doesn't show up on my computer...did she delete it?

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by freedomfly

AlphaFrog,
wow i can tell you still have a lot of growing up to do. When a person is being sarcastic and pretentious to someone who was 1. not talking directly to them 2. doesn't even know them; they are being rude. It is impolite to respond to people in the manner in which you responded to me, that is rude you know it and I know it and hiding behind a thread is not going to excuse the fact that you wont even apologize but instead made a another "smart-Alic" remark to try and cover your initial RUDENESS shows your immatureness and is a bad reflection on you and what you represent on this board. Check yourself.

and you may say that I am making an assumption about you by saying you are immature I dont know your age but from what i can tell all i can say is wow really...all this??

Originally Posted by freedomfly

mabye you should start it cause the way ppl act on here there needs to be a debriefing session B4 and after

Since you said you haven't "been in college" since 2003, I'm going to assume that you actually applied and made it into a college...although maybe I shouldn't because it's obviously not showing in your posts.

There is a newbie thread around here. I think the applicable point here is that "If you think someone is being snarky to you, check their previous posts - you probably aren't special."

And I'd like to point out that you have no idea "what I represent on this board". OBVIOUSLY. Does someone want to clue her in?

Originally Posted by OTW

I usually like suggesting to new posters to lurk and get a feel of the place first before posting. It'll save you from wasting your time spouting off to longtime posters who really don't care what you have to say.

Quoted for truthiness.

[nittanyalum]

Weird, FF has deleted ALL of her posts except the original one about recs...