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Old 04-15-2002, 03:59 PM
Peaches-n-Cream Peaches-n-Cream is offline
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shultzz, I can see your point. I think that the statute of limitations is until the friend is in a new relationship or six months whichever comes first. I had a friend who had a similar scenario only without the statute of limitations. Her boyfriend of over two years dumped her. Not a year or two later, but a week or two later wound up dating her housemate. Imagine waking up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom or have a snack, and you run into your ex who is the reason you're awake in the middle of the night in the first place. Not exactly fun. She was so hurt and felt so betrayed by her ex and the woman that she had believed to be her friend. Her ex married her housemate years later. She married his friend. It all seemed a little weird to me.

Luckily for me, my friends' boyfriends have never been my type.
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Old 04-15-2002, 04:16 PM
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I've had a very good friend of mine actually date 2 of my ex-girlfriends. One of those really hurt me, but the one he's dating now is one of the only 2 girls I've ever really cared for...and since I like my friend alot (obviously), and I love her...she's a great girl (I wouldn't have dated her so damn long otherwise, right?) so I'm glad for them in the legitimate reasoning that I'm happy they're together.

I've dated a friend's ex too, and that was my fault...I wish I hadn't, but it didn't break our friendship....I hope your friendships are stronger than interests in those of the opposite sex. I know that's easier said than done, but it's not really. I've done it.

It's been my fortune to never dislike an exgirlfriend....I'm great friends with ALL of my ex's, and so I'd prefer a friend of mine who I know would treat that girl right to date her as opposed to some fuck that could turn out to be a real bad boyfriend to her, be it jerk-ishness, or abusiveness.

That's my viewpoint
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