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02-25-2010, 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted by bostongreek
that wasn't very funny...
I mean, cheaters are horrible, but so is publicly humiliating someone. They deserve each other.
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He got publicly humilated by her cheating on him. He got burned twice
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02-25-2010, 10:44 AM
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That dude is a douchebag and I HATE cheaters. Both of them are craptastic. She sucks for cheating but that was cruel. I would have hung up if I was her. If I was him I would have just put her out and been like chick you have to go.
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02-25-2010, 10:59 AM
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i've never been broken up with horribly, so im a little biased. BUT if youre going to break up with someone for a good reason (as in, the dumpee has it coming), you might as well make it good.
bet she'll think twice about cheating and lying in public.
where's PB to weigh in on these low-down triflin jokers?
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02-25-2010, 11:31 AM
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OMG that SUUUUCKS...I feel kinda bad for her b/c she really didnt see it coming and they were dating for so long..but I guess she had it comin huh? I loved the way he asked "The question I wanna ask you Ashley is.......how soon can you get your crap out of my house??!" She was DUMBFOUNDED lol.
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02-25-2010, 11:47 AM
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Yikes. It's like Maury but on the radio.
The lie detector test said, "THAT was a lie!"
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02-25-2010, 11:49 AM
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Wow, that's just cruel.
No joke, what kind of people are they. If my son pulled that kind of public humiliation on anyone, he'd be in alot of trouble with me - NO CLASS.
Granted cheating is terrible, but two awful wrongs don't make a right. And for these shock jocks to be laughing at these people's misery is just gross.
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02-25-2010, 12:21 PM
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Am I the only one who thinks this was all an act? It seemed like really bad acting on her part.
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02-25-2010, 03:48 PM
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Funny at first then I kinda felt bad for her. Kinda. I was thinking "why don't you just hang up?"
Last week? Daaaayuuum.
"Crush this B****** soul"
Harsh.
"How long will it take for you to get all of your crap out of my house?"
"You got until Sunday"
**smh**
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02-25-2010, 07:19 PM
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Granted cheating is terrible, but two awful wrongs don't make a right. And for these shock jocks to be laughing at these people's misery is just gross.
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I so agree. SWINES.
She was no angel, but he has a cruel streak and obviously takes pleasure in humiliating people, so good riddance.
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02-27-2010, 11:57 AM
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She was no angel, but he has a cruel streak and obviously takes pleasure in humiliating people, so good riddance.
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Yeah, that's how I felt, too. I didn't know how I reall felt about this whole thing. To humiliate someone publicly just to get your point across says something about you. All he had to do was let her know they were through. I always wonder about a person who goes out of his way to humiliate someone just to make his point. We don't know if HE was all that innocent, either. The girl acknowledged their 5-year relationship right there over the air, which tells me that she saw him as her man, despite any other stupid things that happened within the meantime. To do that to her was just cruel.
And the radio DJs didn't help at all!! 
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03-01-2010, 04:32 AM
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That was freaking awesome.
I wouldn't even call it cruel. To be vulnerable to that she had to have done wrong.
And in relationship terms, cheating is one of the ultimate betrayals in a relationship.
And this girl was going to marry him anyway. And probably stay "friends" with this guy.
She's a pretty bad human being.
Edited to add: I have a feeling that if it had been the man called out this way, people would have been more accepting.
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03-01-2010, 06:30 AM
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That guy by far is the biggest wuss, ever. I mean, seriously? Shame on her twice. One, for cheating, and two, for spending/wasting 5 years of her life with a lamo.
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03-01-2010, 03:33 PM
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Male or female...I'm not here to take sides...but I think that most people have a problem with the truth...
And the truth is...
If you are going to conduct yourself as if you have no self-respect, integrity...morals or values...get the f*** out of the relationship - don't drag others down with you!! Not only do you run the risk of causing great emotional damage and humiliation (as seen in this case)....but you also run the risk of exposing your partner to a number of STD's or even HIV/AIDS.
In my opinion, a coward is one who chooses not be be honest and commits infidelity - that sh*t is weak, and totally unacceptable.
I will agree that this situation could have been handled in a more mature fashion...but I do believe that in order to get respect, you must first give it...and this young lady lacked decency and respect on all levels.
I have no sorrow or sympathy for her, nor anyone else who cheats.
Whether it's a football player who ends up murdered b/c he forgets that he has a wife and children at home, or a politician who is publicly humiliated b/c he chooses to cheat on his terminally ill wife.
Evil begets evil...and if you play a sick and disgusting game - expect sick and disgusting results.
There is one thing that my grandmother used to say about lies and manipulation - "the only person you're fooling is yourself."
It's sad to say...but there are so many of us who think that we're exempt...and probably will not stop until we're caught...or until someone walks the dog on our a$$.
Karma is a b****...remember to treat people the way you want to be treated.
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03-01-2010, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted by acedawg00-02
Male or female...I'm not here to take sides...but I think that most people have a problem with the truth...
And the truth is...
If you are going to conduct yourself as if you have no self-respect, integrity...morals or values...get the f*** out of the relationship - don't drag others down with you!! Not only do you run the risk of causing great emotional damage and humiliation (as seen in this case)....but you also run the risk of exposing your partner to a number of STD's or even HIV/AIDS.
In my opinion, a coward is one who chooses not be be honest and commits infidelity - the sh*t is totally unacceptable.
I will agree that this situation could have been handled in a more mature fashion...but I do believe that in order to get respect, you must first give it...and this young lady lacked decency and respect on all levels.
I have no sorrow or sympathy for her, nor anyone else who cheats.
Whether it's football players who end up murdered b/c they forget that they have a wife and children at home, or politicians who are publicly humiliated b/c they chose to cheat or their terminally ill wives...if you play a sick and disgusting game - expect sick and disgusting results.
As my grandmother used to say about lies and manipulation - "the only person you're fooling is yourself."
It's sad to say...but there are so many of us who think that we're exempt...and probably will not stop until we're caught...or until someone walks the dog on our a$$.
Karma is a b****...treat people the way you want to be treated.
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I agree 110%!
I've been cheated on and lied to before and it SUCKS. I know I wouldn't go about this the way that he did, but I don't blame him, either.
This girl was cheating on him, but also knew that he was going to propose.. and she wasn't inclined to come clean?
Back in high school, I once kissed a guy when I was dating someone else, and the guilt ate away at me for just three days before I had to say something to my boyfriend about it and admit that things just weren't working out.
And yet this girl, after having repeatedly CHEATED on her boyfriend, was planning to marry him without saying a word? I can't imagine keeping a secret like that from my husband for the rest of my life. I'd go crazy.
If this whole thing wasn't staged (because I've had my suspicions as well, PM_Mama00), then this girl clearly has no conscience.
I say she got what she deserved.
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03-01-2010, 04:07 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by acedawg00-02
Male or female...I'm not here to take sides...but I think that most people have a problem with the truth...
And the truth is...
If you are going to conduct yourself as if you have no self-respect, integrity...morals or values...get the f*** out of the relationship - don't drag others down with you!! Not only do you run the risk of causing great emotional damage and humiliation (as seen in this case)....but you also run the risk of exposing your partner to a number of STD's or even HIV/AIDS.
In my opinion, a coward is one who chooses not be be honest and commits infidelity - the sh*t is totally unacceptable.
I will agree that this situation could have been handled in a more mature fashion...but I do believe that in order to get respect, you must first give it...and this young lady lacked decency and respect on all levels.
I have no sorrow or sympathy for her, nor anyone else who cheats.
Whether it's a football player who ends up murdered b/c he forgets that he has a wife and children at home, or a politician who is publicly humiliated b/c he chooses to cheat on his terminally ill wife. Evil begets evil...
If you play a sick and disgusting game - expect sick and disgusting results.
As my grandmother used to say about lies and manipulation - "the only person you're fooling is yourself."
It's sad to say...but there are so many of us who think that we're exempt...and probably will not stop until we're caught...or until someone walks the dog on our a$$.
Karma is a b****...treat people the way you want to be treated.
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I have to say, I pretty much agree with everything you said.
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