Okay, Okay, Okay people, I want to close this thread now. It has become a bash fest! Thank you everyone for your insight, but I think this thread needs to be put to rest.
Grow up GC'ers. Lighten up! I realized very recently, why waste your time on something that is not going to benefit you in the long run?
Update: my boyfriend and I are working things out. We both agreed that when I leave for Tampa, we are going to think about what we want, and come back and share our thoughts.
Thanks again, everyone! But please, try not to get off the tread topic at hand.