the good guys

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Originally posted by XOMichelle
It's not nice guys that finish last, but the meek ones. Meek women too. Hardly anyone wants to be with someone who has no self confidence, no sexual spark and lets themselves be walked all over. But, most people want to be with someone who is fundamentally good.

This is so true...Chopper, it sounds like (from this and your other thread in here) that you're just going through a crappy situation: you like a girl and she's totally playing you. It sucks, but will happen to everyone at some point in their life. I'm not sure how old you are but I'm assuming you're 21-22 just by your posts. That being said, this will not be the first time this type of shit happens to you. It's not because you're too nice, most girls actually like nice guys, it's because you're letting the chick (and maybe others before her) walk all over you. Walking around with a "poor me. I'm too nice" attitude isn't going to get you anywhere with the ladies. Women like confident men just like men like confident women. People who wear insecurities on their sleeve, whether male or female, are easy to take advantage of and use for selfish purposes. Sorry if that offends anyone, but it's just true. So don't be that guy! I obviously don't know you at all, but most people have at least a few things going for them. So develop your confidence, stay a "nice guy" and the ladies will love it. Hope this helps!