DZTUBAGIRL - While she is good at paying bills on time and generally does not spend the night there, that gives her no right to compromise your safety by leaving the door unlocked so her friends can go chill out whenever they feel like it. What if someone other than her friends comes by and either A) steals property from both of you, or B) comes inside with a bad intent and does something terrible?
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Originally posted by DZTUBAGIRL
I have a similar problem...I moved in with one of my sorority sisters that I am not too close to. Well she is a certain fraternity "groupie" and and her boyfriend is in it. She never even mentioned to me that her boyfriend has a key. I have known him for a while and he is the one who told me. Well not only does he come in when we aren't there but his brothers do too. I wil come home and a bunch of her friends are sitting in the living room and she is nowhere to be found. I ask them where she is and they say, "she's in class." I think to myself, why in the H@## are you here then??? She even leaves the door unlocked when she leaves so her friends can come in when they feel like it. I don't really want to complain because she never spends the night there and she is good about paying her half of the bills. I guess I will have to get over it.
About your situation, if she isn't paying the bills and her boyfriend is pretty much living there, you should find somewhere else to live. It isn't worth being miserable. I hope you can work it out.
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