I definitely would NEVER want to haze any of my new members/future sisters (this wasnt so true the first semester I was a full sister and we had new pledges! I really wanted to have some fun with them, but its been 3 years since then I have since realized that its not cool, healthy, beneficial to the chapter in anyway) but I HATE how strict everything is. We're not allowed to hold new member sleepovers (which was an awesome part of my new member experience), quiz them (which in my belief is not in anyway hazing as long as they arent being punished for a bad score....its not considered hazing when a teacher gives you a pop quiz, its a learning tool!) or really do anything besides read information about the sorority off. New members arent even required to attend events which are mandatory for the sisters, which i find ridiculous.
BUT I was New Member Educator of my chapter for many many semesters and we stuck to the rules...and I've had EVERY single one of my new members ask why it was so easy to get in and that they wished it had been challenging in some way. These are all dedicated sisters and I feel badly I couldnt give them the NM period they desired.
I guess I'll end my rant saying that I thoroughly respect my Headquarters decisions regarding our no hazing policy, I just wish things were a little different for Greeks in general
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