Lets see. You are crushing on a guy and your friend tells him you are crushing on him.
He sits next to you all night and tries to make conversation which you rebuff because you personal skills don't overcome yuor stress levels in romantic situations.
You arrange to meet him out at the bar and get drunk before he gets there.
After he gets there you play it so cool that he doesn't really get a chance to talk to you.
While he is there he ends up dancing with someone you don't think he wants to be with but you get jealous and mad so decide to sleep with a random strange.
Now with this random stranger that you don't like, you have absolutely no problem talking to him and asking him to take you home for boning, even though you are unable to speak clearly to Caleb, the man you are crushing on.
Which by the way, is right out of socio-biological theory that the promiscious girl has no problem sleeping with people she doesn't feel attached to, but feels the need to withhold herself from a longterm prospect.
Ok, you did nothing wrong by sleeping with random stranger except in the context of you wanting Caleb.
In fact this is so the antithesis og trying to geta guy to like you I have to ask, Are you from the South?
Contrary to opinion, you going home and banging someone else from the bar doesn't impress us guys. Are we supposed to be jealous i guess? You girls do think in the strangest ways.
Those of you giving her grief . . why? Its her choice if she wants a one night stand, there is nothing immoral about it. And your judgements about boys not falling in love after drunk sex. . . well thats just stupid and shows a complete lack of knowledge about men.
My advice to you. If you want Caleb, don't bring up the bar at all. Pursue him clearly, and pretend you don't like him . . act like you don't. Remove the pressure.
We know you can seduce guys you don't like, just apply that to caleb, the maybe virgin.
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