Changing your name

[Taualumna]

I don't think making one's maiden name her middle name after marriage is all that weird, since you're probably not going to use it on a regular basis. It's only on legal documents that it is used. At work, the name tag outside my cubicle/office will say Cynthia Husbandsname. I also don't have a problem being listed as Mrs. Husbandsfirstname Husbandslastname on social invitations. But then again, I'm kind of old fashioned.