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Originally posted by preciousjeni
As I said, different members feel different ways about it, BUT as a national organization, not participating in a coming out does not bar you from membership. At that point, you're already a member. I'm sure all organizations have traditions that members have differing opinions about, right? Without going too far into the paper/real debate, for example, I must say that I wouldn't ever consider anyone to be paper. If you are my Soror, you just are, no matter what brought you to me. That's just one of those things people don't necessarily agree on.
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Exactly! You are a member once you've crossed, whether you want to participate in a "coming-out shows" or not. I don't know if there is a difference in our opinions, just a misunderstanding.
Epitome: I misunderstood what you were saying. What I was refering to was that we don't allow people to wear letters before they are actually members.
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