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Originally posted by pinkyphimu
first of all valkyrie...i am so with you on this one. i think it was 33 girl who said thank god she went to school where this was not an issue...amen sister.
i don't want to stir anything up, but....what if rhonda rushee gets a no rec from allie alumna. susie sister personally knows rhonda and is offended that allie provided a no rec and completely disagrees with the info written. allie alumna is the only person who has written a rec for rhonda. whose word is is taken?
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If someone in your chapter knows the girl personally, then all that has to be said is something like "she has questionable morals" and then the girl can be dropped. No one wants to take a risk on a girl with a bad rep, when there are plenty of other outstanding girls.
If the girl has a rec, then the alumna who is advising the whole process is consulted. Usually, the word of the chapter sister is taken...and the girl is dropped by 2nd round.
As alumnae, we all have to realize that we are not the ones who have to live with the girl - the chapter sisters do.
There are some things that we alumnae do not know about the rushees, that those of you who went to school with her do.
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