Can we be a little more catty? Sounds like you have a SERIOUS sisterhood challenge on your hands. Have you taken the time to talk to her, to get to know her, or do you plan to "tolerate" her because you feel you have to? It's not your place to "know what the sisters were thinking when they invited her back." And it's DEFINETLY not yours to say where they should "draw the line." That was their call, not yours. Maybe this girl made her bid for this sorority because she felt, just as you did, that she would be accepted and make friends.
It's girls like you who, in my OPINION, are part of the reason why women in sororities are stereotyped as being stuck-up, catty, bitches. She is your sister and she will be until one of you depledges or transfers or graduates or however else y'all disassociate yourselves from membership. You want to know how you'll be able to deal with this? Take the time to get to know her, that's how. You may be someone she admires but she may not quite know how to tell you. You're on your way to becoming greek and like it or not, you're a role model. This time next year, girls will be deciding to make their bids based on your actions not only toward them, but also toward your own sisters. That's something to think about, isn't it?
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