Meeting a potential alum initiate...what should I ask?

[Maharet]

Don't forget to always be yourself and just chat too...Because you are an extension of Alpha Phi, you want to get her involved, but you also want her to know that you are a person too! Find common interests or activities that you both enjoy outside of alum stuff...Act like you are making a friend and Alpha Phi is something special in addition to that friendship. Most importantly, be genuine and have fun.

I am glad everything went well. Good luck!