Did you get your first choice?

[polarpi]

Yes and no....I originally went into formal recruitment (as a sophomore) wanting to go KD, just because all my friends were there. When they dropped me after the (edited: third) round, I went to two pref parties: ADPi and Delta Delta Delta. I knew after each party that I would be the happiest at ADPi...I just didn't have that "sisterly" connection with the Tri-Delta ladies (who are ALL wonderful). Our university frowns upon suiciding (I've never heard it called intentional single preference!) so I put them both down, and was so happy to open my bid card and see that Alpha Delta Pi had extended me a bid....so I did get my first choice in the long run, and it worked out better because I got to know an entire group of ladies that I likely would never have met if I had gone KD...some of these ADPi ladies who are now some of my best friends!