Are you close to your Big/Lil?

[EGDeepher]

I'm in 2 greek orgs. D Phi E and APO. My relationships with my bigs/little are very different with both.

My Deepher big, Jess, is the best. The minute I met her I knew I wanted her to be my big. I was worried that she wasn't going to be my big because she already had a little and did not want to take another one. It turns out that when she met me she changed her mind! She really wanted me! I was so excited that she changed her mind. We have a great relationship, we talk about everything and do a lot of things together. We even went to New Orleans together over break! I don't have a little in D Phi E but I hope when I do we will have as good of a relationship as I have with my big.

My APO big is really cool too. We're very different and probably would have never talked if he wasn't my big but we get along well and the relationship worked out for the best. He always knows the right things to say to make me feel better.

My APO little however is a different story. She's 2 years older than me and will graduate this semester. We have nothing in common and rarely talk. I try to help her but I think she sees me as a kid because she's older.