Okay Cherish I'm about to tell you like it is. YOU CANNOT WORRY ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS! If they are joining DELTA for popularity, they will soon be found out. DELTA just like all the rest of the BGLO's was founded to uplift our black community. We only want people who will work in our respective organizations. Now if they do it for popularity and they get in and work their butts of that's another thing. ALL GREEKS HAVE MEMBERS THAT HAVE JOINED FOR POPULARITY REASONS. It's not just your friends here who want to pledge DELTA. You can't worry about them. Let them do their own thing. You have your own thing to worry about, ZETA. And another thing, you need to be comfortable with your own choices in life. It sounds like you're not all that comfortable with your choice to be a ZETA. I still ocassionally get teased my relatives because I didn't become a QUE. But you know what, I am comfortable with my decision to be a KAPPA. If ZETA's truly in your heart, then go for it and don't look back. And to your friends, if they are only about stepping, strolling, and wearing DELTA paraphanalia every single day of the week they will be discovered at RUSH! Most of those people are transparent anyway. They won't make line. For GREEKS, SERVICE IS FIRST AND FOREMOST! No matter how we phrase it in our mottos etc., it is. Hope I was of some help to you.
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