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I think this is a very tough position to be in. Has this new member's pride talked to her about her hesitancy? Is the chapter okay with holding her over? Is she enjoying being a greek, but doesn't want the responsibilities? Is it the general commitment that's scaring her, or financial reasons? Because as others have pointed out, she'll still be sisters with her new member class, whenever she's initiated.
In my experience, hold-overs rarely go through with initiation, unless it's financial and arrangements are made. If they do get initiated, they go inactive early. As an advisor, I would certainly want a weekly status report on her. Please keep us posted!
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