Gay Vibe

[librasoul22]

Originally posted by lovelyivy84
[B]Umm, you wouldn't happen to have been at the gay club when all this happened, now would you dear? Cuz that would explain it.

- T.
- I know how you roll oh shady one.....
/B]

Ha! No, I specifically cited instances when I was at very neutral settings! I acknowledge that if I am at a club that caters to the gay population and I get hit on, I can't really complain anyway, lol. I have way more stories about the gay club, but that is a whole nother thread, lol.

three2tango, I think the guys are just messing with you. I agree with KappaKittyKat, maybe it wasn't that she assumed you were gay, maybe she was just trying her luck. You know, she had a 50/50 chance, lol.

KappaKittyCat, so you REALLY think that there are effiminate men who are completely straight? Not disagreeing with you, just bringing it up as a point of discussion. I talked about this last week with a gay (guy) friend of mine. Considering the intense socialization that nearly forces males into this ideal of masculinity (i.e. admonishing them if they play with dolls), is it possible? Interesting concept.

Me personally, I think it is possible for straight women to be tomboys, but I don't think it is possible for TRULY straight men (and that means men who have never questioned their own sexuality) to be effiminate. Not in this society.