Hurtful words

[Rudey]

Originally posted by AlphaSigLana
What do people say that either hurt your feelings or make you depressed?
I constantly have guys I like tell me they aren't interested in me bc they aren't attracted to me. Okay I know that sounds shallow, but that is one thing that really hurts bc it makes me feel ugly. Right now I have a crush on a guy and he told me that he isn't attracted to me. SO now when I see him I feel worthless in a way, oh yeah he is one of my friends too that I just met in Florida. I have agreat group of friends and of course I had to fall for one.
It also hurts my feelings when I hear that my ex bf is still mad at me--bc I was mad at her for something-- we haven't talked since Sigma CHi Derby days.

I don't think you really need anyone to talk about what words hurt them - I'm sure most of those words are universal. You have every right to feel hurt if someone isn't attracted to you. But in my opinion, at this stage in your life most people are dispensible. If one has no attraction to you, someone else will. You just have to have the right attitude about it and not feel too sorry for yourself. To each his own, right?

-Rudey
--And have you tried wearing a cowboy hat with a backless shirt? I swear they totally turn guys on.