What do you feel like saying, right now?

[PrettyBoy]

You’re both right, honestly. The truth is, men are wired to be visual — science backs that up, and you see it in Scripture too. Just look at how often beauty is described in the Bible as catching a man’s attention (Genesis 29:17, 2 Samuel 11:2). Physical attraction is often the doorway, but it’s not the foundation. Proverbs 31 reminds us that “charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised”. Beauty may open a man’s eyes, but character is what keeps his heart, unless his motives are selfish and he’s only pursuing what gratifies the flesh, not what honors God.

IMO, what Phroze is describing isn’t shallow, it’s biological and relational. A man’s first pull might be looks, but what makes him choose her for life is her faith, values, and character. That’s the deeper spiritual principle here — beauty fades (Proverbs 31:30), but a godly character endures. The problem isn’t being drawn to beauty, it’s building on beauty instead of building on faith.

In the end, both are necessary in their own place. Attraction gets attention but character keeps commitment.

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

I’m just pointing out the fact that the application got noticed because of the cover letter Lol.

😂😂 Man, you are one funny brother.