I joined my older sister's sorority (she was a senior at the time) but my little sister (2 years younger) chose not to. It was the toughest decision in her life up to that point and she didn't tell me until pref (but I had an idea from my mom). However, she made the best choice for HER and she made SURE the other sorority knew she was putting them first.
I agree emailing the VP of recruitment could be a "bit" risky, but the alternative could be being released. In today's etiquette-void world, VP of Recruitments have been contacted about much more bizarre and irrelevant stuff than this.
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