Question about a younger sister

[MaggieXi]

I think it depends on the school and the culture of greek life. Some chapters will compete with legacy chapters if they really want the girl. Other chapters will roll over and cut the girl assuming she is going to her legacy chapter.

[UNCalum]

"Although Jane has a sitting sister at ABC, I feel it is very important that you realize that Jane really wants to explore all the chapters at U of Awesome and should be given the upmost consideration of DEF despite her legacy connection." It might not even hurt if Jane addressed a similar email to the VP of recruitment of each chapter that said the same thing. This sounds like a good option! I didn't know a PNM could write to VP's of Recruitment. It wouldn't be considered brown-nosing?