Getting adopted but not wanting to offend big?

[AOII Angel]

I have to agree with the other posters. You don't have to have that "Big Sis" label to have mentor or close relationships with older women in your chapter. It's okay to be close to people who aren't your Big. You won't have less of an experience because your real Big isn't around. MANY people never get along with their Bigs but don't get new ones. Make an effort to keep in touch with your Big now that she has graduated. It's a two way street.