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Old 12-22-2013, 02:22 PM
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You didn't, and shouldn't give more details about the girl, but as I recall the only roadblock toward your collegiate NPC membership was your age. That's not "they didn't like me," it's just bad timing. You found a way to fill a void in your life, and this girl will do the same.

You may not want to verbalize it, but deep down you probably know what the barrier is to this girl gaining NPC membership. In your case, it was a birth certificate with the wrong year. Now, no, if you are not friends with this girl and she doesn't ask directly, it's not your job to tell her. I'm sure you've read through the threads where we suggest a girl have a sit down with herself and be honest about what really went wrong. That IS something you could say to her. Maybe the NPC sororities really didn't like her. Why not? One might guess that she has atrocious conversational skills, being that she was appallingly rude to you. How fabulously warm and pleasant was she during NPC rush?
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